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Monthly Archives: September 2016

Way to Get a Kiss for Men

It always has been a dilemma for men to make a decision on the most appropriate time to kiss a woman. What always lingers in their mind is what if it turns out that is not what the woman had in mind? They are scared that it might even end the relationship that they have. It is only human to be scared but surely there are ways to go about it.

When on a date, you can show her that you want something more than a chat by touching her softly. It can start by slowly caressing her arms especially the upper arms. You can then move on to touching her hair and then her face. Touching a womans lips with both the index finger and middle finger at the same time should do the trick.

You can give hints that you want a kiss in your conversation. It does not have to be directly addressed but you could go about it by simply asking her if she has ever kissed someone and how she liked her first kiss. Most women should feel comfortable answering this question and if they play along you should go ahead and tease her about what she says. It works better if you tell her that you are a better kisser and then she would get a hint of where the conversation is headed.

From the first date, you should be able to determine if the woman prefers that you kiss her instantly. Some women may be open enough and give a green light but most of them are reserved and wait for the man to take control of the situation.

Try to pick a private spot to go ahead for a kiss. Most women prefer privacy and intimacy especially in the early stages of a relationship. A man should not confuse a woman who does not want to kiss in public for not wanting a kiss at all.

If in a house, you can get a woman to kiss you by first playing with her on the couch then caressing her and moving on to kiss her. The less formal you make it the simpler it becomes. Women kiss men that they are comfortable with and who are fun to be with.

When you are about to part ways keep a firm grip of her hands and pull her back in romantic way. Keep close body contact and move closer to look at her straight in the eyes and lips too. Tell her in low tones how wonderful she is and then move ahead to give her a peck on the lips. If she does not resist then it is a sign for you to go ahead for an even better kiss. Dancing to a romantic song increases your chances of getting kissed especially as the music is about to end.

For all this to happen it is important that you maintain a good breathe. You should also be confident and avoid any nervousness because it makes her doubt your intentions with her. Your facial expression also says it all. Showing a smiley and caring face reminds her that you are not just playing with her feelings.

Tips for Writing Online Dating Profile

How much time do you spend preparing to impress for that long awaited date? It might be one hour or even five hours but it’s likely to be much longer than the ten minutes or so online daters take to complete their profile. Yes, filling online forms can seem like a laborious chore but if you want to stand out from the crowd and find your soulmate then it’s worth making the efforts. Here’s a useful check list to help you on your way to dating success :-

1) Smile please

Yes a picture really does paint a thousand words. Try to get a picture taken that is a smiling head and shoulders shot. The photo should be recent and not touched up to present a glamour that simply isn’t there. Be yourself and if you are male, fifty, chubby and follicly challenged (okay bald!) then don’t post up a shot of when you were 30 with a sleek athletic figure and a full head of hair. Yes you might get lots of first dates but they may be brief and I wouldn’t bank on a second date. Honesty really is the best policy.

Men should avoid posing against a background of a flash expensive car. Remember the viewers of your picture have signed up to a dating site rather than Auto Trader and pictures highlighting your wealth can give an impression of arrogance or attract the wrong type.

2) Be creative with your username

Humor and creativity can help make a great impression. One recent female dating profile had the username ‘catalogue 57363’ and she light-heartedly highlighted her impression that she felt like an item in an online shop window. Be yourself and match your username to your personality without making it sound too cheesy or egotistical.

3) Stand out from the crowd

Give the reader an insight into your personality, aspirations and hobbies without of course revealing any personal data that may compromise safety. You don’t have to write a long essay but a small descriptive piece with a little self-deprecating wit can be appealing.

4) Mind the gap!

Yes, some online sites have forms that make you feel like you are filling out a long-winded job application. But if it is a good site then it’s worth the effort. Don’t be tempted to skip sections or write ‘tell you later’ or otherwise prospective partners might think you are either not that bothered or have something to hide. Quite simply, if you can’t be motivated to complete the profile then don’t be surprised if nobody is motivated to contact you.

5) Avoid negativity

Don’t mention the ex and leave excess baggage to airports rather than your profile. If you really want to find an attractive and positive person then a bitter rant about your dislikes will not help. Nobody wants to meet scammers, time-wasters or mad axe-men but highlighting your fears is not necessarily going to deter the undesirables and it may put off the vast majority of decent people who might otherwise have been interested. Exude positivity and that will help you attract the dating partner you would like to meet.

6) Be descriptive

Try and avoid using a list of over-used adjectives such as ‘kind, caring and fun’. It’s almost a given that most people want to meet people who have those qualities. It’s much better to write something with a little wit that demonstrates you have a good sense of humor rather than simply state ‘gosh.’

If you like music then reveal your favorite style or singer. If you enjoy sports tell the readers which ones rather than just saying you like physical activities. After all, your reader will not know if you are referring to cage fighting or ballroom dancing!

Above all, remember that writing your profile can be fun. Be creative and let your personality shine through to help attract that elusive ideal partner you would love to meet.

Way to seduce a Woman

Quoting the words of a great physicist, women are complex creatures that so hard to understand. They like one thing but after a while they dont like it anymore. They want to do one thing but after a while they want to do other stuff. They might be irritable for one minute and suddenly they become so cuddly. They are emotional by nature and make decisions based on what they currently feel. Because of these traits, there is no exact formula in making a woman like you. Although this might not apply to all, the following are suggestions to help you seduce a woman.

Know the right time for everything. As what the opening statement states, women are very unpredictable. In every move that youll make, always observe the current emotional state of the woman. Check first if shes in the mood or if shes not. If you dont do it in the right moment, you might be rejected and all the efforts that you have done will be wasted. Dont be in a hurry in saying anything because you might offend the woman and eventually will be turned against you.

Make her laugh. All women love to laugh and they prefer someone who has a great sense of humor. The jokes that you have been trying to memorize for the past weeks will be put to test. While conversing, you can insert jokes to spice up the conversation. If you dont do this, a woman will just get bored and will try to do other things that will make her smile. Remember also to make her laugh in the natural flow of your conversation and not in a very rigid manner.

Flowers and chocolates will never grow old. If you want to make a girl feel extra special, rose bouquet and cute gifts will work wonders. Gift giving therefore would be a good way to seduce a woman. Some girls prefer expensive gifts like diamond necklaces or diamond rings but there are those that prefer personalized yet inexpensive gifts. Most girls however would still blush if they receive a bouquet of flowers or a box of chocolate.

Lastly if you want to seduce a woman, then start to treat her well. A woman usually prefers a guy that is not a bodybuilder but can protect her from danger. A woman usually prefers someone who she knows she can trust and will protect her from danger and harm. Dont be too tight in the way you handle her. Instead, give her enough space and time so she can be with her friends or she can do things that she wants to do. Respect her decisions but be open to her suggestions.

Remember that the above suggestions may work to many people but not to all. In making your move, always do it in the right time so it will be effective. It is helpful to have a good sense of humor too or if you want you can give her chocolates. Above all, treat her as if shes the most precious and the most beautiful woman in the world.

Tips Improve your Dating Success by a Flirt

Flirting can be seen as a magical black art that comes very naturally to some people while others can be left puzzled by it. The aim of flirting is to let someone know you are interested in them; it is not to try to impress them. If you flirt with someone you like and they like you they will flirt back.

Whole books have been written on flirting and I will only scratch the surface in this article. I will, however, show you that there are some simple rules which anyone can follow to start flirting more successfully.

Preparation

Successful flirting begins with proper preparation. Before you go out, make sure you look your best. Pick clothes that suit you and make you look your best. You could always ask a trusted friends advice about this. This is of double benefit because people are attracted to good looking people and also looking your best makes you feel good about yourself. When you feel good you are more confident and people find confidence attractive.

Eye Contact

Making eye contact with someone you want to flirt with is important. You can do this fro the other side of the room so you do not need to build up the courage to approach the person at this early stage. You want to look at them occasionally and just as they look at you wait just a tiny bit longer than normal to look away. It is important not to stare though as this makes you look more creepy than attractive.

Smiling

The simplest way to start flirting with someone is by smiling. You should look at him or her and smile when they are looking at you. Then look away but keep smiling. Smiling comes naturally to pretty much everyone and no one should feel self conscious about it. This means that even the shyest of people can start flirting by smiling.

Body Language

When you first meet someone, just over half of their initial impression of you will be based on your appearance and body language. This means it is important to get this right.

Show an open, friendly posture do not cross your arms as this suggests to onlookers that you are not open to communication and that you don’t want people to approach you. An open posture suggests the opposite. If you are a male, fill your space. Do not sit squashed up in a corner. Sitting or standing relaxed and open gives the impression of confidence and makes you approachable.

Talking

People are always worried about what to say when they start talking to someone new. They want to impress them and don’t want to look foolish. In fact the way that you speak is about 5 times as important as the actual content.

In my opinion chat up lines do not work. Complements are good especially when aimed at a woman. Try to complement them on something nice like their eyes or hair or smile. Steer clear of complementing something like their breasts as this will just be seen as offensive.

When in conversation, ask questions and listen to their answers. People like to talk about themselves so show interest. Do not spend all the time talking about yourself and trying to impress them with your achievements. Talk using a medium varied pitch and tone to show interest, but don’t vary it too much or you’ll just seem strange. Talking to slowly and too flat will make you seem boring while talking to quickly will make you seem overbearing.